when relations are not blessed by the parents

Falling in love and having a boyfriend is fun and can make our lives more beautiful and certainly more eager again to live day by day by. But not all love stories it runs smoothly, there is always just a block or even make love us so much more difficult to live. And perhaps the most common is when parents do not agree on our love relationships? Our parents did not want to accept the choice of our hearts and hate people who become our partner. If you have ever experienced such things like this, where our love relationships do not get the blessing of the parents, do not be discouraged once and do not rush to take steps that could be, would prejudice our lives.

When parents do not approve of our relationship, it helps you do more checks and rechek to the problems being faced, and you must be prepared to see and accept the good and bad sides of this issue.

Check this Love Relationship Motivation

The first time we have to do is figure out what was the motivation that causes us to choose him to be our partner? What is the purpose of our relationships intertwine. What is the goal we chose him was just to go crazy, though more is seen as a ce / co slang, or maybe there is another motivation is higher, for example because we wanted him to be a wife / husband? By knowing the true motivation of a relationship, we'd better find out if we completely in love with him? or just the love we feel is just about the sense of wonder for a moment? Or even worse that when we voted for him, just like our friends look great because we could get to him, which incidentally ce / co craving? Well, when we already know what the actual motivation of our love relationships, we are guaranteed will be easier to face the disapproval of our parents.

Is This Really Love?

Once again, ask ourselves, whether we feel this is really love? Do we really care about him? When we fall in love with someone, we will always view everything is possible and doable. With the power of love, we can be more excited, what had seemed impossible became possible. But when suddenly the parents do not agree with our relationship, then we will simply blame them, and assume they do not understand the feelings we experience.

What is the motivation of disapproval Parents

The next step is to figure out what the motivation behind parental disapproval our love. Find out the background of the lives of our parents and then we compare it with the background of our girlfriends, because usually the difference in background is often a major cause of disagreement with parents. There are many reasons that can cause parents do not approve of our relationship, and that's all we have to find out what the motivation of those reasons.

If the Parent is Wrong

Parents are human, they are not always necessarily true. If it turns out their disagreement over against the background because of problems racis (differences in race, skin color etc.), social class, or even differences in occupations (eg, he is less well established than us). When it's all the reason, then it is proper we strive to maintain our love relationships and not give in and agree with our parents disapproval. Parents may feel worried if it turns out we love relationship will only make us miserable, or make us socially ostracized from society. And sometimes parents use the "rules" or "social order" the old days, sometimes less relevant to the circumstances of today.

If it turns out this is the cause of disagreement with our parents, it is only logical that we can provide the right arguments on them to maintain our love relationships. However disagreement due to problems of racism, social class is not justified, although it all comes from our own parents.

If the Parents We turned out right

Nothing is more familiar with us, besides our parents. Even old people know and understand more of ourselves than our own. And just maybe, because we're blinded by the name of love, to what is seen as the bad side by our parents we just can not realize it. We see only the good side and the view that love is always beautiful. We must remember, the parents loved us and they wish that we could be happy in life. So when they see something is wrong and harmful, in our love relationships, of course they are going to resolutely reject and not approve of our relationship.

If our people were never heard even know that we are boyfriend got a bad behavior, and they feared we would be harmed by our partner, of course it helps if we try to listen to them, because they might have a point. If we begin to apply the wild, chaotic and our lives begin, (for example, we started to use illegal drugs, liquor) because of the influence of our girlfriends, parents certainly strongly disagree with our relationship. And parents also will not approve, if it is during a relationship, school achievement starts to decline, or we begin to lose friends and our friends. It's time we listen to parents and stop our love relationships. However, a relationship that is too much sacrifice and harm our personal lives, it is something that is not healthy for our survival.

Finding a Way Out

As said earlier, love is beautiful and can make life more vibrant and better. If it turns out the love that we live in nowadays, it really makes our lives better, more comfortable, and our boyfriend really care about us and have a positive effect on our lives, naturally we maintain this love affair, even though the parents are not agree.

But when the affair began to be felt "endanger" our private lives, it helps us re-think whether we need to maintain this love? Keep in mind all right, we must not lose our lives just because we love and nurture a relationship. Family, friends and college or school, is still very important for our lives. Fostering a love affair, does not mean that we should lose it all. When we begin to feel that we begin to lose our lives, we think it's time to end this love affair.

Parents always expect the best for us, face the disapproval of parents with a cool head and a cooperative attitude. Perhaps they do not like with our partner, but someday they will accept our love relationships, if we are able to prove that what we do can make our lives better and more beautiful to live.

Congratulations Love!